Real experience. Honest advice. No sugar-coating.

I am André Chappot. I have a Master’s degree in Social Psychology and years of professional training in family dynamics and relationship training. But my real qualification is my life experience.

I have lived in the Philippines for over 8 years. I know how beautiful this country is, but I also know how hard it can be to adjust. Before I found my wonderful Filipina partner, I had to navigate the local dating scene for a long time. I know the traps, the misunderstandings, the financial pressures, and the intense culture shock because I lived through them myself.

I am here to help you avoid the same mistakes and build a happy, realistic life here.

Background: MA Social Psychology (Univ. Fribourg), Systemic Family Analysis Training, 8+ Years Living in PH, Former NGO Project Manager & Trainer.

Are you facing one of these problems?

  • You are talking to a Filipina online and planning to move to the Philippines. 
  • You live here with your Filipina partner, but you argue constantly. 
  • Her family invades your life
  • She doesn’t understand that you live on a budget and constantly asks for money
  • You moved here a few months ago. The holiday feeling is gone. You feel lonely,
  • You are from Switzerland, Germany, or France. You speak English, but it is exhausting to talk about your deepest frustrations in a second language.
  • … and many others

Clear, Fixed Prices. No Hidden Costs.

I do not do open-ended, aimless chats. I offer structured packages to solve specific problems. All sessions are 50 minutes via Zoom.

Pre-Move Reality Check

Best for: Couples living together who need to fix communication, align on financial boundaries with the local family, and stop the same arguments. 3 sessions

Partnership Sync

Best for: Couples living together who need to fix communication, align on financial boundaries with the local family, and stop the same arguments. 5 sessions

Culture Shock Reset

Best for: Single expats or individuals who are struggling to adjust to daily life, feeling isolated, or frustrated by the culture. 3 sessions

European Expat Coaching

Best for: Swiss, German, or French expats who want to process their experiences and relationship struggles in their mother tongue.
4 sessions

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